“The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, and his glory is to overlook a transgression” (Proverbs 19:11).
Biblically speaking, wisdom is far more than a body of knowledge which may or may not have any practical application to daily living. According to James 3:13, wisdom and understanding are shown by good conduct done daily in meekness. Two of the most challenging ways of living with good sense is found: 1) in controlling your temper and 2) when you have been offended by another.
Being touchy, peevish, or quick-tempered is a foolish path to travel on a daily basis (Prov. 14:17). It contradicts the way you would prefer others treat you, and thus violates the principle find in the “Golden Rule” (Mat. 7:12). A hothead leaves a trail of interpersonal and spiritual damage in his wake.
How you respond to a transgression is also an excellent way to measure the true amount of wisdom and good sense you have. Offenses are a fact of human existence (Mat. 18:7). Husbands and wives do not always live out the best version of themselves with each other. Ditto for employers and employees. Ditto for brothers and sisters in God’s family.
What people do and say to you is usually out of your control. Whether you respond to another’s transgression with harshness or grace is entirely up to you. Discretion says take the high road. Just as God’s grace is a beautiful facet of His glory, responding graciously to another’s offense is a glorious facet of your wisdom and discretion.
